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AITA for telling my wife forget it and going out by myself for my birthday instead of going to her fancy dinner reservation This has been an ongoing issue and it came to a head yesterday. My wife is a planner, it is extremely hard for her to just go with the flow. If we are going to do something she needs all the details.(edit, she does have OCD, I forgot to include that, that is why she is such a planner) A while ago she asked what I wanted to do for my birthday. I have been burnt out from wo