idk if this is nfsw necessarily, but ill add it in case.
so i watch asmr as a guy. I'm not ashamed to admit that inherently, because up to this point i watched it because i liked it and it relaxed me.
some of my favorites are sarah lavender and asmr divinity and spring, just incase you guys were wondering.
now i have always heard of asmr that was more sexual and raunchy, things like ear licking and moaning in the mic, and that kindve shit never appealed to me. it always seemed to cater to men