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Am I The Asshole for refusing to take the blame for my golden child brother after he caused a car accident? I don’t think this will blow up or anything, but I genuinely need outside opinions because my family is acting like I’m insane. I’m 19M, and my brother Ethan is 22M. He has been the golden child literally our entire lives. No matter what he does, my parents defend him. He could break something? Somehow it was my fault for “leaving it there.” He could scream at me? I was told I “provoke