Pāhonoa te oro

Am I The Asshole for suing my HOA after they kept taking over my yard like it already belonged to them? I bought this house because it was NOT part of the HOA. That wasn’t a bonus—it was the main reason I bought it. The neighborhood next to mine has one of those super strict HOAs. You know the type—approved paint colors, lawn height rules, fines for leaving your bin out too long. My property sits right next to them… but legally, it’s completely separate. At least, it was. About a month aft