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How They May Behave in Different Contexts. With Friends, charming at first, competitive underneath, one-upmanship, uses friends for status or access, poor reciprocity, disappears when you need support, jealousy if you shine. With Family. favoritism or scapegoating, guilt and obligation, control through loyalty, rewriting history, boundary violations, emotional unpredictability. With Colleagues. credit stealing, political charm upward, blame downward, sensitive to criticism, strategic allia