Pāhonoa te oro

‎Kindness without boundaries isn't love—it's exhaustion. You can't be a light for others if you keep letting them blow out your own flame." ‎ ‎You also deserve the same compassion you give to everyone else. ‎ ‎Real kindness doesn't ask you to destroy yourself. It asks you to grow strong enough to be a shelter for others, without losing your own home." ‎