Secondly, the secret to making the all-important "erotic spiritual connection" with your mother is to practice connecting the feelings in your cock ... and balls with an image of your mother and scent from her clothing ... simultaneously ... so the three feelings learn to "connect" easier every time ...
... The best way to do that is shutting down all distractions, constantly maintaining and savoring your mother's presence with a piece of her clothing for her scent and your favourite photo of