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UPDATE: Am I the Ahole for refusing to let my sister bring her pet iguana to my wedding? Wedding day arrives. My sister shows up… with Mr. Scales hidden in a fancy handbag, claiming he’ll “stay quiet the whole time.” I reluctantly let it slide, thinking maybe this will blow over. During the vows, t…

UPDATE: Am I the Ahole for refusing to let my sister bring her pet iguana to my wedding? Wedding day arrives. My sister shows up… with Mr. Scales hidden in a fancy handbag, claiming he’ll “stay quiet the whole time.” I reluctantly let it slide, thinking maybe this will blow over. During the vows, the bag wiggles violently, and suddenly Mr. Scales jumps onto my fiancé’s shoe. Guests scream, the flower girl cries, and my uncle faints. My sister is laughing, insisting “he just wanted to be part of