He also took me to every appointment to get an abortion, and was super kind. Then a few years later, I was diagnosed with cancer at 21, and he and he slept on a chair next to me after surgery.
But honestly, I knew during the first conversation we had, I think. He asked me to go to the zoo, which was the perfect date idea! And then he paid, and drove, and he was hilarious and fun and smart as hell. (And somehow he was into me, and not my prettier, cooler sister!!!) I wanted to keep him right then