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AITAH for not sleeping with my wife after she accused me of raping her Hi all, as the title says my wife accused me the other day of raping her after sex and it's making it really difficult to look at her anymore. For context, me and my wife have been married for 7 years and dated for 4 years prior. we've told each other everything there is to be told, she knows that I was molested as a child by my older brother, and I know she went though something similar. When we first started dating, she to