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What is the coldest thing someone ever did to you? My dad missed basically every important moment of my life, birthdays, games, graduation, everything, and every time he had some excuse, work, busy, something came up, so after a while I just stopped expecting him to show up at all. Then when I was 24, he randomly called me and asked me to dinner, first time in years, so I went. He picked this super expensive restaurant and the whole night he was acting strangely nice, asking about my job, my apa