Pāhonoa te oro

What's the thing you hate about sex? 1. The pressure to perform. Everyone acts like it's supposed to be perfect and passionate every single time. Nobody talks about how it's sometimes awkward, sometimes boring, sometimes just fine. The hate is all the expectation that comes with it. 2. The vulnerability. You're literally exposed in every way. Physically, emotionally, mentally. One wrong move and you feel completely rejected. That vulnerability can haunt you for years. 3. The communication gap