Pāhonoa te oro

Am I the ass hole for not reconciling with my family after I was framed for theft? I've been living away from my family for 5 years with the very bare minimum of contact because right around when I turned 15, my dad's stuff started disappearing from his room. He has a pocket knife collection filled with different knives that he has collected from across the US, and some of them are pretty decently valuable (not worth like several grand or anything but some of these probably fetch for a few hund