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Can you forgive a partner who cheated? Most people answer too quickly. They say yes, to sound strong. Or they say no, to protect their pride. But psychology does not care about either answer. Because betrayal does not just break trust. It changes how your brain processes safety. When cheating is discovered, the brain reacts like it is under threat. Not emotional stress. Threat. The same brain systems involved in physical pain activate. That is why it feels like something broke inside