My friends helped me set up a dating app for neurodivergent people. I started talking to a woman who’s trans who bonded with me over gender identity, queer culture, music, and our cats. It was nice to get to know someone who shares the same interests and experiences as me. When I met her in person the first thing she did was pick me up in the air and gave me a big hug. She was taller and stronger than me. I was shocked by the instant physical touch and this was just the start of the red flags an