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I (22M) have a friend (19M). My friend is a good 280 pounds. I don’t judge him for his weight at all, but the problem is he’s always complaining about it. He’s always saying that’s the reason women don’t want him and everyone is mistreating him for being big and how he doesn’t think he’s attractive. He’s always talking about how he wants to get more fit. I’ve told him what he needs to do if he wants to achieve his goal, but he will not change his diet. We went to chick fil a and he ordered a c