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If someone ignores you…..Why do they suddenly become more important to you? Strange, right?..... The people who give you attention feel normal… But the person who ignores you… starts living rent-free in your mind. Why does this happen...It’s not love. It’s not attachment. It’s something much deeper. When someone gives you attention consistently, your mind feels calm, there is no mystery, no tension. But when someone suddenly becomes distant…your brain experiences uncertainty.