Pāhonoa te oro

Think about it from her perspective. When a man is comfortable alone, he cannot be controlled through the fear of losing him. He cannot be manipulated with the threat of withdrawal. He isn't clingy, desperate, or emotionally volatile because he has grounded himself in his own sense of completeness. He wants companionship, yes — but he does not need it to function. That distinction changes how he carries himself, how he speaks, how he responds to conflict, how he makes decisions. He chooses a wom