Umsindo ohlukanisiwe

They weren't all yours. some belonged to the relationship. When the relationship ended, the routine didn't just change. it collapsed. and in that collapse, you lost more than a partner. you lose the structure of your days. you lose a schedule. and suddenly, you're standing in the middle of an em…

They weren't all yours. some belonged to the relationship. When the relationship ended, the routine didn't just change. it collapsed. and in that collapse, you lost more than a partner. you lose the structure of your days. you lose a schedule. and suddenly, you're standing in the middle of an empty day with no blueprint. This isn't failure. this is what happens when the scaffolding of a shared life is removed. the question isn't why did the routine collapse